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I have a kooky sense of humour at times, look for the laughter in situations. I can be conservative at other times.

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About my life as a widow/widower

How long has it been since your spouse/partner passed away?Over 10 years
How long were you married?Over 10 years
Are you interested in dating or making new friends? You can select both if you like.Dating, Making new friends
Do you have children?Yes
Does your potential date have to be a widow/widower, too?It's an advantage, but not a must


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageNew Zealander
Height5' 7" (170 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtySales / Marketing
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleCustomer service representative

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Soaps
Favorite TV showsCoronation Street, A Place to Call Home
Favorite movies typesComedy, Romance, Drama
Favorite moviesLove Actually, Mama Mia
Music typesPop, Classical, Jazz
Favorite artistsElton John, Whitney Houston
Reading selectionFiction
Idea of funGoing for a walk through the gardens, watching a movie, going out for dinner
HobbiesReading, TV, Internet, Family, Theater, Cooking


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorGoofy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, The movies, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryJet boat trip


Political viewsMiddle of the road
Attend religious servicesOn holidays
Goal in lifeTo carry on as before

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerSomeone kind who is a good father, respectful and has a sense of humour
On the first dateMeet up for a coffee or lunch and talk, take a walk if we get on well enough